What happens if a Parent Violates a Custody Order in Texas?

What Happens if a Parent Violates a Custody Order in Texas?

Custody orders (called possession and access in Texas) are legally binding.
When a parent refuses to follow the order — such as withholding the child or repeatedly violating the schedule — the court can step in quickly.

Here’s what Texas law says happens when a parent violates a custody order.


1. The Violation Must Be Documented

Judges want proof, not just accusations.
Evidence may include:

  • Text messages
  • Emails
  • Missed exchange logs
  • Witness statements
  • Police reports
  • Evidence of interference

Document every denied visit or violation.


2. You Can File a Motion to Enforce

A Motion for Enforcement asks the court to:

  • Order the parent to follow the schedule
  • Issue make-up visitation
  • Impose fines or penalties
  • Hold the violating parent in contempt
  • Modify the custody order if needed

The motion must list each violation by date, time, and exact provision.

Internal link: → Visitation Enforcement page


3. The Court Can Order Make-Up Visitation

Texas courts regularly award make-up time when a parent is denied visits.

This may include:

  • Entire weekends
  • Holiday replacements
  • Extended summer time

Judges want both parents to have meaningful time with the child.


4. The Court Can Hold the Parent in Contempt

Contempt is serious and may result in:

  • Fines
  • Community service
  • Attorney’s fees
  • Jail time (in severe cases)

A judge will use contempt when violations are repeated or intentional.


5. Custody Can Be Modified if Violations Continue

Interfering with visitation is considered parental alienation and is one of the top reasons judges modify custody.

A parent may lose primary custody if:

  • They intentionally interfere with possession
  • They try to turn the child against the other parent
  • They repeatedly violate the court order
  • They ignore communication rules

Internal link: → Child Custody page


6. The Court Focuses on the Child’s Best Interests

Even if arguments exist between parents, the judge looks at:

  • Stability
  • Safety
  • Mental/emotional well-being
  • Consistency in parenting
  • Cooperation between parents

Violations that harm the child’s relationship with the other parent are taken very seriously.


What Should You Do If the Other Parent Violates the Order?

✔ Document everything
✔ Do NOT withhold the child in retaliation
✔ Contact a lawyer early
✔ File enforcement if violations continue

Jesus R. Lopez

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